Category: My Lovetail Journal

When love starts feeling like a checklist, not a connection "Did you check in with them?""Did you plan date night?""Did you ask how they’re doing with work, therapy, family, sleep, hydration, emotional regulation...?" At some point, modern love started to feel like a full-time job. And not the...

Because we’re no longer attracted to chaos—now, we crave safety There was a time when drama felt like desire.When we mistook anxiety for butterflies.When the person who kept us guessing was the one who got our full attention. Let’s just say... we’ve evolved. In 2025, green flags are...

There was a time when falling in love came with a full digital announcement. A soft smile on Instagram. A boomerang cheers. A caption with just enough ambiguity to get people talking. And then, things changed. We stopped posting their faces. We started posting wine glasses across from...

In a world where strength and self-reliance are often celebrated, vulnerability can feel like a risky, even dangerous, proposition. Yet, it’s one of the most powerful tools for building deep and meaningful connections in relationships. When we allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we open the door...

Have you ever felt like you and your partner are speaking entirely different languages? You’re not alone. When it comes to expressing love, understanding how your partner communicates can make all the difference. Enter the concept of love languages – a powerful tool to help you connect on a...

Mmmm... Attraction – it's that mysterious force that makes your heart race, your palms sweat, and your thoughts swirl. It's the magic spark that pulls two people together in a whirlwind of chemistry and connection. But what is it that really draws us to each other? Is it purely physical, or is...

Infidelity – the very word can send chills down the spine of anyone in a committed relationship. Despite societal norms and expectations, cheating remains a prevalent issue that has plagued relationships for centuries. But why do we cheat? And how do the motivations differ between men and women?...

In today's world, where technology reigns supreme, the rise of online romance is shaking the foundations of traditional relationships. Dating apps and social media have made it easier than ever to connect with others, but this convenience comes at a cost. The endless swiping and instant messaging...

In the vast expanse of the digital age, dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, and others have reshaped the landscape of romantic relationships. What once revolved around personal introductions, chance encounters, and social gatherings has evolved into a fast-paced, swipe-driven environment that...

Ever wondered why your relationships feel like a replay of the same sad song? Before you point fingers, let’s take a moment to turn the mirror around. Sometimes, the biggest hurdles in our love lives are not the "them" out there—it’s the "us" right here. Getting Real with Yourself: It’s...